There was a fireworks show on July 1st in our town.  I have no clue why there was one on Saturday, but it was totally unexpected, and such a nice surprise and treat.  While I was sitting on the back porch watching them, I started to reflect on a time in our marriage that lacked surprises.  There was a lack of "fireworks" during the course of the fertility treatments. I had become so laser-focused on conceiving